- Gathering together a group of people (the Minimalism & Decluttering Games group I started on Facebook) has made the process a delight. Everyone shared their daily decluttering stories and there was accountability to not skip days. I am pretty sure it would have been a drudge and I would have quit otherwise.
- I can't remember 99% of the things I decluttered. Things that come to mind: the orange phone & a stack of party plates...and that is all I recall without looking at the photos I took.
- The more clutter I removed, the more I realised there was to still get rid of. Even now, I could easily play the game again and will in March.
- We've accumulated and saved things from a lifestyle that has changed quite a bit over the 13 years we've lived in this apartment.
- Guilt plays a big role in hanging on to things too long - it was hard to dispose of gifts or things we "paid good money for" but rarely use.
- Having fewer things around gives me more energy and motivation for maintaining what's here
- Minimalism doesn't mean austerity; it means not having excess.
- There are lots of people who are happy to have the strangest things you might want to give away.
- Donating items in Japan isn't easy, but the we gave clothing to a Syrian refuge charity drive, and the Salvation Army has a donations center that was happy to take my random assortment of stuff at the end of the game.
- I think moving things out of my life has given me mental room to invite friends and ideas back in.
Recently in Make Do, Do Without Category
- Gave away over a dozen hoops at 4th Sunday Spin
- Donated ten hoops to charity, using up my pipe supply & lots of tape
- Pared down my shoes by almost half.
- Planted a delicious garden of herbs, tomatoes and newly flowering chili peppers.
- Used some old hair dye. Interesting color results.
- Replaced two ratty old pj tshirts with lovely nightgowns
- Chucked out some seasonal clothes that had seen too many summers
- Cleaned up some of my digital archives
- Broke some drinking glasses; didn't replace them.
- Created a "fairy garden" with pretty things I had on hand
- A summer blouse and a summer dress. I haven't discarded anything yet - but I will.
- A long sleeved black shrug from Inga
- LED mini hoops.This was a work-trade barter from a hoop friend, so it's actually partially on target.
- Buugeng. Bought them from Dai Zaobab while he was in town. A flow toy I have wanted to play with for years, but...new stuff.
- A pair of character shoes and some performance costume pieces. But earned money with them.
- The remnants of Inga's travel detritus before she left Japan: a spoon, chopsticks, a rug, a veg peeler, sunscreen. They remind me of her visit, so they are sort of nice
- A pair of orange pillows for the Tibetan bells to rest upon.
- Make a concerted effort to archive digital projects neatly and back them up
- Reduce my coats and bags
- Sort through my jewellery and accessories for a give away
- Drink my way through the liquor cabinet (just kidding, but there are some weird, crusty old bottles in there that need to go)
- Change how I use Facebook to reduce mental clutter (more on that soon)
- Drag the things down to the trash that are waiting in the pantry for action
- Sort through my books and give lots away
- Joined Freecycle and gave away some big stuff from the pantry closet
- Put a box of small treasure on the street - almost all gone in 24 hours
- Replaced two worn items of summer clothing with new ones
- Gifted power stones for bracelets at Guru-guru Camp
- Mailed a box of treasures to a friend
- Gave a party tent & beach umbrella to our camping buddy, Takashi
- Created a standing desk from an easel and some scrap wood
- Acquired another tent (the Peanut) from Tracey for GGC.
- Bought a cooler box for camp
- Made a lot of palm candles at camp
- Own a new, smaller portable amp for practice and parties
- Gave Tod a melodeon for his birthday
- Purchased a hat
- Bring out my summer clothes and trash the worn out ones
- Reduce my shoes by half
- Pare down to a minimum of handbags, coats, and hats
- Host a hula hoop retaping/giveaway party
- Plant a food garden
- Build an outdoor kitchen with things we already have
- No accumulation of things
- Purchase only consumables
- Become mindful of my consumption
- Exercise creativity by repurposing what I already have
- Improve skills in repair, maintenance, & construction
- Build networks through bartering and trade
- Reduce my "ecological footprint" by decreasing waste and increasing the life of my things
- Refocus my desires to meaningful things like learning, rather than an LED hula hoop
At the end of last year, I decided to try not buying anything except consumables for the whole of 2009. It was a pie-in-the-sky project with vague rules and no real consequences or penalties for failure. I blogged my progress and this is the final report.
The first few months sailed by smoothly. I restricted and restrained myself for about half a year without too much pain. I kept a wish list of things I wanted to buy but wouldn't. I retrained myself to not shop as a waiting game. The plastic smell of shops became unpleasant. My main failures were supplies - fabrics and hoop tubing - and gifts for friends and family.
When summer came, I gave in more easily to shopping temptations for myself. I bought some clothes and more fabric. Cosmetics sneaked into the house and so did a new pair of sneakers to support my sprained foot. I stopped keeping my journal in August. Autumn arrived with flurry of buying for Spin Matsuri, partially materials for the event itself and partially costumes for me. Our trip to Thailand and Singapore saw purchases of books and clothing. I replaced my filled up sketchbook with a new one. I bought an old, used telephone that I have wanted for years. And in the last month, I have caved in to the point that I bought all of my Christmas gifts and not many of them were consumables.
Shopping is a slippery slope. It is hard to put the brakes on and so very easy to get rolling again. Here is my scorecard, based on the original goals I stated last December.
- No accumulation of things
- Partial success. I ended up with more hoop costumes, hoops, makeup, and clothes than I started with but most of the durable goods I purchased were given away as gifts.
- Purchase only consumables
- Fail. See above.
- Become mindful of my consumption
- Success. However, consciousness and conscientiousness slipped later in the year.
- Exercise creativity by repurposing what I already have
- Partial success. I had a few good moments, like the shoe clips in May, but I found this surprisingly difficult.
- improve skills in repair, maintenance, & construction
- Partial success. Though I did repair and maintain things, I didn't do so with new or improved skills.
- Build networks through bartering and trade
- Partial success. I bartered and traded with friends as I always do, but did not build new networks.
- Reduce my "ecological footprint" by decreasing waste and increasing the life of my things
- Partial success. As an example, I eked another year out of our 12 year old mattress and put the 5 year old computer in for repair instead of replacing it.
- Refocus my desires to more meaningful things, rather than an LED hula hoop
- Fail. I still want hula hoops. They are meaningful to me.
This month has been illuminating.
As seems typical, very few of my purchases will remain in the house. I've bought gifts for friends' birthdays and supplies for Spin Matsuri and other hooping events. I think I can justify these things without guilt. I splashed out on a trio of Uniqlo shirts & a pair of purple leggings to fill in little gaps in my wardrobe - I've already worn all of them but I could have survived with out them, so that was a fail. I bought a hat at a flea market. The woman and her smiling baby made me feel good about it, so not too much of a fail.
I also put together an emergency kit in case of earthquakes - resupplying our stock and adding some new essentials. That is a "I hope this is never consumed" item that I do not regret or feel at all guilty about shopping for.
Tod & I started tracking our daily purchases, including monthly bills & transportation costs. Basically anything that comes out of our wallet gets marked down in a notebook at the front door. It is surprising how much money we spend, even without many durable goods. Our daily average is 12,000 yen for the past month. That is pretty amazing, since I don't think we spend huge wads of money. But I guess I have the notes to prove we do.
Where does it go? Well, utilities are high, we don't skimp on groceries, we are generous with gifts and we eat out a couple of times a week. Trains and taxis cost us 34,000 this month; utilities totaled over 30,000; I had a 5000 yen hoop class; the emergency kit set us back 8,000 yen; Tod's workday lunches about 1000 yen daily. So anyone who thought I was going to ruin economic recovery by not shopping...you were wrong. I am still spending plenty of money.
At least not too much of our cash is spent on things that persist.
Short report: FAIL.
Long report: I have a lot of interesting new clothes, many of them from a second-hand shop.
Of the above, two pants, two skirts, one jacket, and three tops are brand new; one skirt and five tops are second-hand. In other words, 14 of my 44 wardrobe pieces are newly purchased.
It was my intention to go window shopping with Jeanette last Sunday, not to actually buy things. It was meant to be a lesson in cut and color but the clothes fit so well and they were on sale...I got stuff at 3 different stores. Here is my shameful accounting: 8000 yen at H&M for 2 skirts, 2 pants and a jacket; 7000 yen at Zara for 3 tops; and about 9000 yen at Kinji for a skirt and 5 tops.
I should feel guilty but I have a completely coordinating wardrobe that gets me compliments when I wear it. With so many matching pieces I will be able to don a different outfit every day for the rest of the summer (and the next couple of summers, too), so I have no reason to want any more clothes.
Shopping is a slippery slope. Now I want shoes and accessories. Sigh. Brakes on. Can not have.
Clothes weren't my only fail this month. Feeling the sadness of not having any glowing toys for our weekly evening spin gatherings, I bought 4 Cyalume LED glow sticks to make glowing poi. They are quite spectacular in motion. 890 yen each. I knitted the leashes myself, at least.
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