This is the photo I didn’t submit to the Mirror Project. The one I sent in was added yesterday as number 16,449.
According to their website, “The Mirror Project is a growing community of like-minded individuals who have photographed themselves in all manner of reflective surfaces.”
In blunt words, a bunch of narcissists and exhibitionists. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
I’ve been reflecting lately about the nature of people with personal websites. Why do they have them? Why do they choose to reveal themselves (or not)? Why do they keep up the effort?
All I can do is answer for myself.
Why do I have a website? My first website was an experiment in 1994, when the web was new and we were still inventing Telerama. My site incorporated my resume, some recipes, and a reading list. It’s morphed into this site over the years, but I’ve always aimed to use my site to educate. For now, that includes Hello Tokyo, course materials I’ve developed (like the DW4 workshop), and recipes.
Why do I reveal myself? My goal in life is to express an experience so that the audience understands it and relates to it. Perhaps this site remains an experiment because I find it interesting to see which posts resonate with comments—usually the ones where I reveal something about myself or ask questions. I have a thick skin, so people saying my site sucks or they think I’m useless really doesn’t hurt (anymore).
Why keep up the effort? Because you can’t build a body of work without expending effort and you don’t earn a good reputation in your field without a body of work. I spend from 10 minutes to an hour every day writing, photographing and preparing entries. Maybe it’s a compulsion or perhaps just a habit. Judging from my site stats, it’s an effort my audience approves and from time to time an e-mail saying thanks buoys my spirit.
Posted by kuri at June 28, 2003 07:06 AMHello,
I am a brazilian living for the time being in Japan. Visited and enjoyed your homepage in a boring-rainny-nothing-to-do saturday afternoon in rural shiga-ken、while listening to The Smiths!
Cheers,
花と梨の木 (Orozco)
Posted by: 花と梨の木 (Orozco) on June 28, 2003 02:57 PMHi! I wanted to let you know that I think you have a great web site and your ‘Hello Tokyo’ project is a fascinating concept so I look forward to your progress with every visit. Also, I know that being open on the web can be a gamble since everybody can see/read your life, but its a phase in a person’s life that can allow them to grow and have new experiences I think. So the whole idea can be very rewarding and satisfying to the person doing it, such as yourself. Just keep up the great work and take care.
-Eric H.
Posted by: Eric on June 29, 2003 03:49 AMwell, I go to your site when I need comfort food for thought!
Posted by: Terri on June 30, 2003 02:52 PMI come here to read the excellent writing and like the frequent pictures of you :) lookin good
Posted by: Mike on June 30, 2003 09:45 PMI’m the first Blogshare investor for this blog. I have no idea why I did so, but I certainly don’t regret it. Keep up the good work.
Posted by: Arthur on June 30, 2003 10:51 PMMy site sucks and I’m worthless.
Posted by: UltraBob on July 1, 2003 01:25 AMUB, it only sucks when UltraMom’s not posting. ;-)
Posted by: kristen on July 1, 2003 03:40 PMWhat nice comments from everyone (except UB who is worthless). I wasn’t fishing for compliments! I was trying to think through why I do this. After a while it becomes rote and I forget the main point of it all.
Posted by: kristen on July 1, 2003 03:44 PM